The first sexual life is a major event for women, and it is the only way for us to change from a girl to a woman. Therefore, before the first sexual life, we always hope to learn more about this matter. No matter what kind of knowledge we learn through, one key point is always the same: pain, the first time a woman will be very painful.

Why does a woman hurt for the first time? On the one hand it is physical pain, on the other hand it is actually caused by psychological effects.

Many women will scream for pain during their first time (early night). It is completely caused by their high mental tension. Because women are nervous, their whole body is stiffer than before. Men are affected by women, so they also become nervous. In this way, because there is no relaxation, the man's penis is not aligned with the position of the vagina, so the woman will cry out in pain.

In fact, many people know that the hymen is a thin film, which is easy to rupture during strenuous exercise, and many things happen unconsciously. In other words, the facts have proved that when the membrane ruptures, it will not cause pain, at least it will not cause obvious pain. Otherwise, how could women not be aware of it? But why do people accept that there is no bleeding in the first night, but do not accept the idea that a ruptured hymen will not be painful?

People say “it hurts for the first time” by word of mouth, and media such as literature, film and television also promote the first night pain, and they associate this feeling with the innocence of girls so closely that they have formed a connection in people’s minds. Jue: The first time sex means distortion. Pain is something that women must overcome in this ritual. Women are destined to suffer and suffer. Therefore, women should be cautious about their first night in order to be afraid of pain. If this man does not If you are gone, you will be in pain and you will have paid for nothing.

Too many women are afraid of penis insertion into the vagina for this so-called pain, and they are even scared when they think of it. Many years after marriage, they cannot lead a normal couple's sex life. As a result, public opinion about infertility, divorce tragedy, guilt towards their husbands, etc., have caused long-term psychological pressure on them, and a series of psychological and/or physical problems, such as anxiety , depression , gynecological inflammation, and self Immune diseases , skin diseases , etc.